Much more then would ye wonder at that sight, There dwells sweet Love, and constant Chastity, There Virtue reigns as queen on royal throne, The which the base affections do obey, Then would ye wonder and her praises sing, That all the woods should answer, and your echo Open the temple gates unto my love, With trembling steps, and humble reverence Bring her up to the high altar, that she may The sacred ceremonies there partake, The choristers the joyous anthem sing, Behold, while she before the altar stands, That even the angels, which continually Oft peeping in her face that seems more fair But her sad eyes, still fastened on the ground, Sing, ye sweet angels, Alleluia sing, That all the woods may answer, and your echo ring. Wedded Life. -Edmund Spenser. I MEN EN and women and especially young people, do not know that it takes years to marry completely two hearts, even of the most loving and well assorted; but nature allows no sudden change. We ascend very gradually from the cradie to the summit of life. Marriage is gradual-a fraction of us at a time. A happy wedlock is a long falling in love. know young persons think that love belongs only to the brown hair, and plump, round, crimson cheeks. So it does for its beginning. But the golden marriage is a part of love which the bridal day knows nothing of. Youth is the tassel and silken flower of love; age is the full corn, ripe and solid in the ear. crimson, violet, purple, and gold, with its hopes of days that are to come. Beautiful is the morning of love, with its prophetic Old people never marry their opposites; they marry their similars, and from calculation. Each of these two arrangements is very proper. In their journey, these two young opposites will fall out by the way a great many times, and both get out of the road; but each will charm the other back again, and by and by they will be agreed as to the place they will go to and the road they will go by, and become reconciled. The man will be nobler and larger for being associated with so much humanity unlike himself, and she will be a nobler woman for having manhood beside her that seeks to correct her deficiencies and supply her with what she lacks, if the diversity be not too great, and there be real piety and love in their hearts to begin with. The old bridegroom, having a much shorter journey to make, must associate himself with one like himself. A perfect and complete marriage is perhaps as rare as perfect personal beauty. Such large and sweet fruit is a.complete marriage that it needs a very long summer to ripen in, and then a long winter to mellow it. But a happy marriage of love and judgment, between a noble man and woman, is one of the things so very handsome, that if the sun were, as the Greek poets fabled, a god, he might stop the world in order to feast his eyes on such a spectacle. The Day Returns, My Bosom Burns. HE day returns, my bosom burns, TH The blissful day we twa did meet ; Ne'er summer sun was half sae sweet While day and night can bring delight, Or nature aught of pleasure give,- Comes in between to make us part, γου A Wife's Appeal to Her Husband. took me, Henry, when a girl, into your home To bear in all your after-fate a fond and faithful part; Or pined there was not joy for me when you were No, I would rather share your grief than other people's glee; For though you're nothing to the world, you're all the You make a palace of my shed, this rough-hewn bench I look upon you when you sleep-my eyes with tears grow dim: I cry, "Oh! Parent of the poor look down from heaven on him! Behold him toil from day to day exhausting strength and soul; Look down in mercy on him, Lord, for Thou canst make him whole !" And when at last relieving sleep has on my eye-lids How oft are they forbid to close in slumber by my child! There's only one return I crave-I may not need it long And it may soothe thee when I'm where the wretched I ask not for a kinder tone, for thou wert ever kind; Of knowledge, that you prize so much, may I not some- Subtract from meetings among men each eve an hour Make me companion for your soul as I may surely be; A meet companion soon I'll be for e'en your studious The True Wife. OFTENTIMES I have seen a tall ship glide by against the tide as if drawn by some in visible bowline, with a hundred strong arms pulling it. Her sails unfilled, her streamers were drooping, she had neither side wheel nor stern wheel; still she moved on stately, in serene triumph, as with her own life. But I knew that on the other side of the ship, hidden beneath the great bulk that swam so majestically, there was a little toilsome steam tug, with a heart of fire and arms of iron, that was tugging it bravely on, and I knew that if the little steam tug untwined her arm and left the ship it would wallow and roll about and drift hither and thither, and go off with the refluent tide, no man knows whither. And so I have known more than one genius, high decked, full freighted, idle-sailed, gay-pennoned, but that for the bare toiling arms, and brave, warm-beating heart of the faithful little wife that nestles close to him, so that no wind or wave could part them, would have gone down with the stream and have been heard of no more. And Jock his Sunday coat; And mak their shoon as black as slaes, Their hose as white as snaw; It's a' to please my ain gudeman, There's twa fat hens upo' the bauk, They've fed this month and mair; Mak haste and thraw their necks about, That Colin weel may fare; And spread the table neat and clean, For wha can tell how Colin fared When he was far awa'? Sae true his heart, sae smooth his speech, His breath like caller air; His very foot has music in't As he comes up the stair,— The cauld blast o' the winter wind, The present moment is our ain EV A Caution. V'N in the happiest choice, where favoring Has equal love and easy fortune given, Think not, the husband gained, that all is done: They, and the virtues meeting must secure. Let ev'n your prudence wear the pleasing dress IF at once. Tell Your Wife. you are in any trouble or quandary, tell your wife—that is, if you have one-all about it Ten to one her invention will solve your difficulty sooner than all your logic. The wit of women has been praised, but her instincts are quicker and keener than her reason. Counsel with your wife, or mother or sister, and be assured, light will flash upon your darkness. Women are too commonly adjudged as verdant in all but purely womanish affairs. No philosophical students of the sex thus judge them. Their intuitions, or insights, are the most subtle. In counseling a man to tell his wife, we would go farther, and advise him to keep none of his affairs a secret from her. Many a home has been happily saved, and many a fortune retrieved, by a man's full confidence in his "better half." Woman is far more a seer and prophet than man, if she be given a fair chance. As a general rule, wives confide the minutest of their plans and thoughts to their husbands, having no involvements to screen from them. Why not reciprocate, if but for the pleasure of meeting confidence with confi dence> NIN To My Wife. [On the Ninth Anniversary of our Marriage.] [INE years ago you came to me, A soft and winged mystery, And my heart rocked its Babe of bliss, At first I thought the fairy form To fill my poor, low nest with warm And wifely womanhood We cannot boast to have bickered not, We have not lived the smoothest lot, |